Homework or having fun?

Any teenager can approve that he had or have this problem: "Should I go out or finish my homework first?"

In most of the cases we are choosing the fun - movie, friends parties, fashion games - even if we know that we will have problems if the homework wouldn't be completed. At first, our decision is to finis our task later. But after the enjoyment, in no time we are forgetting our obligation. The only thing that we (the teens) can do, is to start to be responsible and do our obligations first.

Do your best

Our parents always want us to be perfect everywhere, every time. But even if we do your best - the parents aspire for more. After they are telling us "No, you can do it better... Try harder..." we are loosing our willpower and we are starting to do everything worse. What can you do? If you can, go and talk to your parents and tell them that they caused the worsening and ask them to stop demand more and to support you. If you can't tell them that, try to ignore the criticism and do your best!

Don't lie to your parents

We - the teenagers, have to go somewhere or do something our parents don't want us to do, even if it's something we don't want or need. So why are we doing it? I think it's pride and stubbornness. It doesn't matter how or what we are going to do, but if the parents don't permit us to do that - of course we'll do it! I can't control my reaction, but I have to try and stop being so stubborn, even if it's difficult.
Teenagers - try to do it by yourself, and you will see how your communication with your parents will be better.

In the club...

The most common pastime in the weekend/holidays, is to go to the clubs.
All of us aware to the dangerous that we can find in this clubs, but the teen's
still go.
Just think about it. All of us herd about the murdering,and the fighting,
and all of our parents were asked from us not go.
Simply, why we have to go? we can make fun without this clubs.
It dangerous, our parents will be worried, and we will spend a lot of money,
that we can keep.

Don't be afraid to talk about it!

Hey...today I want to talk about the fear of many teen's to talk about their feelings. First of all, if you're in love,and you're a shy person, I can get you one advice - you have to go to this girl/boy and tell him/her. If it's your best friend, it's better for you not to tell him/her immediately, and to find out if she/he feels like you.
If you like some boy/girl from your school,I suggest you to try to know him/her better,because you may find out that this person is not what you really want.

Fighting with parents

It happens with all of us. Everybody has a fight with his parents sometimes. The first thing you should remember before you start to scream, it's that if they don't let you go out with friends late at night, it's because they have a realy good reason. If they make you angry, and you sure that you're right, you may try to explain them peacefully, that they are wrong.

The second advice is to stop fighting, and let your parents calm down. It always works. If you do it that way, probably, they will understand your situation and listen to you better, than when you're fighting. Sometimes it's more helpful to give in. Don't blame them,it hurts your parents and it doesn't let them chance to understand you.
Think twice!!
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Remember these advices, may be it will help. :)

Teen's problems

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