Monday, December 1, 2008

Teenagers

Today everybody knows of teenagers' problem. Still their parents always have to meet this challenge and very often they are at a loss, what to do. The problem is very complicated. Though the parents have to demand from the children good conduct and want them to obey general rules, this process must not be too straightforward. The more you press on the children, the less they obey. Being strict in your demands, you have to be flexible. I am sure that it is necessary to speak with children. In a free conversation, when the family sits together, you can tell some story about what happened with children of some aquaintances or collegues. Positive examples would not do. The teenagers won't believe. Only constant and consistent work in this direction can bring results. But you must be patient and not to wait for prompt results.

Saturday, October 18, 2008

Teen Chat Rooms

There is no doubt that teen chat rooms, teen forums and other teen sites have become worldwide popular places among our kids where they can, typing messages to others who have signed on, discuss their interests, connect with other kids and more. There is great number of online services offered free teen chat rooms for teens and preteens to hangout and chill. But have you ever thought is there anything wrong with your child who uses online chat too often? Unfortunately today teen sites is also one of the most common place where kids can find themselves getting into trouble and parents should remember about that of course. I mean, that all these teen chat rooms & hangout is really wonderful idea and perfect place for chatting up after school or on a break from studying but in spite of this I suppose that our children online contacts must be controlled by parents as they do that in real-world relations. Kids must be learned how to stay safe online and parents should help them on the way.

First of all if you let your child talk in chat or use instant message sessions you should be convinced he or she uses a monitored chat room moderated and rated G. Spending some time in this chat room before your child to come there is also not out of place. Millions of teenagers come online every day, we want they will be safe and no doubt it depends to a large extent on us, their parents.

Tuesday, September 23, 2008

Priorities

Usually, teenagers don't realise what is the correct priority list for their lives.
In certain age, when a teenager is starting to undersatnd the way of life, he can choose the right thing to do. But before they can do that by themselves,the parents attempt to convince their kids to do what they think is the right thing, but the kids think that it's wrong. The teenagers need to understand that by themselves, and if the parents are pressing, that causes a damaged conection between them.

Monday, July 21, 2008

How to learn for your exam'

Here some tips for you that will help you succeed in tests:
A moment before:

*Dont leave the studying for the last moment
*You need to divide the material to subjects and invest a time for every subject
*Divide your study to small tasks, and conclude the important point's on a card cabinet
*At the first step answer question's from previous exams. At the second step
answer the questions considering the time of exam.
*Create a convention - study at the same place at the same time every day
*Your place for studying need to be comfortable, be aired and lighted with no interruptions
*Ask yourself questions about the subject.
*Interprete what you write at the class into your own words
*Read aloud. It's slowing down your reading, and make possible for you to check yourself by way of the eye-sight and hearing
*The best way to learn something it's to teach the material to other person
*One day before the exam wake up early and study up to 16:00 p.m
In the evening dont study, and chill out.
TIP:recommended to eat one good meal 90 minutes before the exam.

At the moment of truth:
1.Equip yourself with watch, and a can of drink- it will help you to keep concentration.
2.when you get the exam read it quickly, and write on the side some things that can help you to answer the question.
3.If some question seems to you difficult, don't stuck in it, and pass to the next question. Later, if you have time, come back to this question.

I hope it will help you to success in the future:)

Monday, July 7, 2008

Working teenager

Almost all the teenagers look for work, just for feeling independent. That is good and bad at the same time. On one side, the teenagers have the opportunity to see how hard it is and that is helping them to understand and respect their parents. On the other side they can think that they don't need their parents support or help, and to run away and start a new life. Cases like that almost constantly ends with horrible outcomes.

Friday, June 13, 2008

Educating Your Child in NY Charter Schools

How to educate a child? This is truely one of the most important questions a parent may ask. And while pursuiting the soultion, parents as well as their kids face a basic choice, which is generally depicted as a struggle between charter and private schools. It should be clear, that absolutely not all parents do want to take on unnecessary expenses in case they will not ultimately benefit their child.

After all, many New Jersey private schools do quite a good job of educating students. The truth about schools is that they don't posess tuition costs. In the opposition are New York charter schools, which can run, on average from 10,000 to 30,000 dollars a year. The myriad of benefits, a private education can offer, still far outweigh the costs. Of course, we can't but mention, that it basically depends on the local options parents may face.

Those, attending charter schools are thought to be more academically challenged. These students are considered to be exposed to clearer value systems. Moreover, they're given a greater access to tutors. Some even say they feel safer than within local public school conditions. However, you should know that admission to private schools will be competitive, and seeking a perfect school, where he or she will be accepted, may take some time.

Wednesday, May 21, 2008

Homework or having fun?

Any teenager can approve that he had or have this problem: "Should I go out or finish my homework first?"

In most of the cases we are choosing the fun - movie, friends parties, fashion games - even if we know that we will have problems if the homework wouldn't be completed. At first, our decision is to finis our task later. But after the enjoyment, in no time we are forgetting our obligation. The only thing that we (the teens) can do, is to start to be responsible and do our obligations first.

Tuesday, May 6, 2008

Do your best

Our parents always want us to be perfect everywhere, every time. But even if we do your best - the parents aspire for more. After they are telling us "No, you can do it better... Try harder..." we are loosing our willpower and we are starting to do everything worse. What can you do? If you can, go and talk to your parents and tell them that they caused the worsening and ask them to stop demand more and to support you. If you can't tell them that, try to ignore the criticism and do your best!

Saturday, April 12, 2008

Don't lie to your parents

We - the teenagers, have to go somewhere or do something our parents don't want us to do, even if it's something we don't want or need. So why are we doing it? I think it's pride and stubbornness. It doesn't matter how or what we are going to do, but if the parents don't permit us to do that - of course we'll do it! I can't control my reaction, but I have to try and stop being so stubborn, even if it's difficult.
Teenagers - try to do it by yourself, and you will see how your communication with your parents will be better.

Sunday, March 23, 2008

In the club...

The most common pastime in the weekend/holidays, is to go to the clubs.
All of us aware to the dangerous that we can find in this clubs, but the teen's
still go.
Just think about it. All of us herd about the murdering,and the fighting,
and all of our parents were asked from us not go.
Simply, why we have to go? we can make fun without this clubs.
It dangerous, our parents will be worried, and we will spend a lot of money,
that we can keep.

Monday, March 17, 2008

Don't be afraid to talk about it!

Hey...today I want to talk about the fear of many teen's to talk about their feelings. First of all, if you're in love,and you're a shy person, I can get you one advice - you have to go to this girl/boy and tell him/her. If it's your best friend, it's better for you not to tell him/her immediately, and to find out if she/he feels like you.
If you like some boy/girl from your school,I suggest you to try to know him/her better,because you may find out that this person is not what you really want.

Saturday, March 15, 2008

Fighting with parents

It happens with all of us. Everybody has a fight with his parents sometimes. The first thing you should remember before you start to scream, it's that if they don't let you go out with friends late at night, it's because they have a realy good reason. If they make you angry, and you sure that you're right, you may try to explain them peacefully, that they are wrong.

The second advice is to stop fighting, and let your parents calm down. It always works. If you do it that way, probably, they will understand your situation and listen to you better, than when you're fighting. Sometimes it's more helpful to give in. Don't blame them,it hurts your parents and it doesn't let them chance to understand you.
Think twice!!
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Remember these advices, may be it will help. :)

Wednesday, March 12, 2008

Teen's problems

Welcome to my blog. In this blog you may send your teen's problems, or to find answers and solutions. You always may offer answers for other questions with your's comment!

I wish you will find what you need in my blog.